One of things nice about being a guy is that it is okay to approach an attractive woman. But still, it can be the ultimate test in alpha male behavior. You never know which ones are safe. A bite to the male ego is hard to recover from. It is like hunting for a dangerous wild animal, but more deadly. Thousands of books are written to give us guys the courage to go after this big game. The more attractive the more risk. To face possible female rejection is the ultimate fear factor.

Yes, I have had some success in capturing those elusive creatures. It's great for the male ego to out gun those puffed up gangsters and cowboys at the club. To bag a phone number or even bring home a nice rack earns unspoken respect and envy from those losers who struck out at the plate.

The problem is meeting and talking to women can be a dangerous sport. First of all they usually run in packs. There is no headgear to protect a guy from those painful words, "No thank you." There are no pads thick enough to endure that sharp bite when one of them says, "Nice meeting you" one minute after meeting them. Ouch, that hurts. No one likes to crash and burn in front of snickering friends and a table of pretty ladies. It is just embarrassing. So what is a guy to do?

Well, I suppose a guy can try the 'courage in a bottle' trick. He can get so hammered it may reduce some of sting when she bites down into his male ego. The problem with drinking is that your breath stinks and you end up sounding like an idiot. To approach an attractive female a guy has to have a clear head. That woman can smell fear 20 feet away! A woman reading this might say, "just be yourself." Bull crap. How can a guy "be himself" stepping up to a table of beautiful ladies and say, "want to dance?" Then watch them look at each other like, "Who wants to dance with this desperate weirdo trying to get a one night stand?" (I hate it when they blow my cover) It isn't that easy to "be yourself." What if I was a laid off postal worker with an attitude? See. It's just too risky to be discovered as a guy controlled by testosterone. Still, the hunt must go on.

I was living temporarily in California to do some service work. It was the Silicone Valley in San Jose. I don't think the silicone part had anything to do with computers. I was only going to be there for 6 months, and I didn't know anyone. I was bored and lonely. So I decided to dress up and go out to a popular cowboy bar. The place was full of people. The competition was high. Males outnumbered the women about 10 to 1. That is not good odds for a non-gangster, non-cowboy, and new kid on the block sort of guy. I had to really be on my game.

I was walking through this place and noticed a very attractive Latina woman. She had a knock out body and she knew how to flaunt her stuff. She was sitting on a stool looking half bored with the three other guys trying to get her attention. As I was walking by she smiled and gave me that 'I could eat you alive' kind of look. Well, I had to step over and introduce myself. I told her she was very pretty. She had an interesting and sexy accent. I thought maybe Brazilian or something. We had some small talk and I told her it would be nice to meet for dinner sometime. She said that would be nice. So we set up a dinner date the next night. We exchanged numbers and I left.

I was so excited to meet a cool friend and very cute. I got my cool mini-van all ready and cleaned up. I got my best cologne. Made dinner reservations. I was going to razzle-dazzle this little Silicone Valley honey. On my way to pick her up she calls me on my cell phone.

"Hey. How's it going?" I said. "I should be there in about 15 minutes."

"That's fine." She said. "But there's something I have to tell you."

I'm thinking, 'Oh great. She is probably married or has a boyfriend or whatever.' "What do you have to tell me?"

"I'm not a woman," she said.

"I'm sorry. What?"

"I'm not a woman."

By now I'm starting to swerve all over the street. I had to pull over. "You're not a woman!!...Then what are you?"

"I'm a man."

"But you have breasts!"

"They're implants."

By now my head is going into hyper retreat mode and shock. I think she sensed me losing interest. She said, "In a couple of weeks I am going to have my penis removed."

"Uhh.." I seriously had no idea what to say, but I won't forget what she said.

"Do you have a problem with that?" She asked me.

"Hell yes I have a problem with that! I can't believe this! Sorry. I am going to have to call this one off."

On my way home I thought, 'I should just go over there and kick her balls in. Save here some surgery expense.' Man, how gross. I suppose I should be grateful. At least she gave me some heads up before it was too late. (No pun intended)

Love Life Lessons:

1. In California things are not always what they appear to be. It is amazing what they can do with silicone and plastic.

2. You can't judge a book or a person by the cover. In cowboy bars geldings and mares drink from the same watering hole.

3. If it looks too good to be true then you are probably right.

4. There are worse things that can happen to a guy than female rejection.

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Having body hair that is inconvenient and difficult can ruin one's day. This is a constant battle that women have to face countless of times. These days it is easier to manage unwanted hair as there are many hair removal treatments out in the market.

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The lifespan of each strand are all different. At one point in time, majority of hair follicles are in the active growing phase. Depending on the person, the duration of each growth stage ranges from two to six months.

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One important factor is to make sure that at the active growth stage is when unwanted hair is removed. Every method for hair removal is known to accomplish this factor, saves for shaving, which cuts the hair just short from the follicle. If the hair follicle is taken out during the growth stage it will keep any from growing for a longer time.

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Have you ever wondered what makes online dating so popular? Do you really need to ask? First of all, let's weigh the other options out there. You could go the route of arranged marriage... On second thought, maybe we'll pass on that one. How about using some of those cheesey pick-up lines for the bar scene? It doesn't get much more romantic than a room full of drunks. Then again, maybe you've left those rowdy days in the past.

You could always wait on a friend who has promised to introduce you to some promising family member of hers. But, you could be waiting a long time for that. Not to mention, blind dates are almost always a nightmare. Church is another place that people claim you can meet a potential date. But how would you do that? Is it appropriate to turn around in your pew during mass and say hello?

Or perhaps the work scene is more to your taste when shopping around. You know that's a REALLY bad idea, right? Let's face it, if the relationship goes sour, you still have to see that person on a daily basis - no getting away from that one!

All of these are excellent reasons to consider online dating, but there are others, too. To begin with, there are a lot of people out there trying to meet this way. You have the world's most connected matchmaker at your disposable. According to the numbers, there are 37 million people who visit dating sites each month. Thirty-seven million people! Plus, the software on dating sites handles everyone's data in such a way that you can seek out people who fit your preferences. For instance, if you only want to date tall people, you can specifically search by body type. If you are not a cat person, you can opt to search for dog lovers instead. If you are looking for love in Michigan, then limit your search to that state. Beyond that, internet dating gives you an excellent chance of finding someone. In that 37 million person pool, even after you eliminate the half that is not the gender you seek, there has to be someone who would be a good fit for you.

And besides the mass of people swarming the dating scene online, keep in mind that they are all in it for the same reason you are - to date! That means 37 million plus saying in unison "I WANT TO MEET SOMEONE.

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When exercising regularly, the proteins are broken down in the muscle so that they are able to rebuild. It is important to replace those proteins with a new source, or the body will pull protein from other areas that need it as well causing a deficiency in many cases. So it is very important to eat after a work out routine and replenish the body.

There are a couple of foods that are the highest in protein that are ideal for eating after working out to get stronger. This includes fish, chicken and turkey as well as leafy vegetables. Some fish like tuna or salmon have higher amounts of protein than others and are highly recommended. If you eat your tuna from cans, try to get varieties that are packed in water and not oil.

When eating any of these high protein foods, it is best to have them baked, broiled or grilled and never fried. Fried foods add additional fats to the system that are not required, and workouts leave the body starving. So if you were to eat fried foods after a work out, the body would consume the fats first and leave the proteins for later as they are harder to digest.

Protein shakes are commonly used after working out, but some are not as healthy as they seem. The amount of protein in each shake when made should make up half of all the ingredients to be useful to the body. If the right amount of protein is not available, the body will then draw from other places to get the protein.

You should remember to check medicines that could possibly have reactions by a diet or exercise change. So you should take to a doctor before beginning or ending any exercise or diet routine, to keep your health a top priority.

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